Sex advice.

how do you give a handjob in the best way possible?

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Anonymous

1. make sure its not dry

2. look up at him while your doing it

3. show clevage

4. just have fun with it <3

6 months ago

sorry super weird question but how do you poke yourself?

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Anonymous

Poke yourself? You take your finger and proceed to tap the tip of the finger onto your arm/shoulder ect.

6 months ago / 1 note

I feel kindaaa. weird, Like all my friends have boyfriends.. even the not so pretty ones except one (but guys always are shouting stuff out to her when she walks down the road). My past boyfriends were dickheads either.. whenever im out with a group of my friends.. they always look at the one who doesnt have a boyfriend(thee one who guys are always shoutingg hot at or somethingg) And im likee.. -_- foreverr alone. im 14 but is this normall? likee is it just part of growing up?

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urban-cats-deactivated20120216

Dont worry. First of all, you are FOURTEEN. you are NOT Forever alone. It’s not a big deal. So what, your single. Enjoy it. I swear you will find someone. 20% of people meet the person their going to marry in middle school or early high school. So who cares right now. I promise all of yours friends relationships will be over sooner or later. Just be yourself and before you know it, the situation will be reversed

6 months ago

I just started using tampons and I am using the lights ones, but when I put them in it hurts like fuck, like when i walk around and sit and stuff it just hurts. And its not because I havent got it all the way because I have. How do I fix this?

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Anonymous

Well not to prove you wrong, but hun, you DO have it in wrong if it hurts. you arent supposed to feel a THING. even though you say its far enough. go a little farther than you normally would next time okay? And do it from an angle. Put one leg on the toilet

6 months ago

This is going to sound really awkard.... But most times when i get fingered my labia tend to puff up and get all swollen, and its very uncomfortable.. Would you know how its caused and how i can help it not do it..?

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Anonymous

Thats unusual. its probably because it’s sentitive and not used to being touched. If it hurts, maybe dont have contact with it for a while. or put a cream on it, that will definatly help it.

6 months ago

i swear i'm guna be one of those people where hooking up won't come naturally :/ and im scared. i've never kissed anyone before. im fourteen. and i swear i make guys feel awkward. like, my last boyfriend he had done everything part from sex and we only hugged/cuddled. because he didn't know weather to kiss me or not. omg. i fail with guys :(

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Anonymous

Don’t worry. The first thin to do in this situation is act extremly calm whe nyour around boys. Dont try to be different because they will notice. Also, if you really wanna prove guys wrong (if you want) next time you have a boyfriend, YOU lean in for the kiss. i promise they wont refuse. You will feel aacomplished after.

6 months ago

how do you deep throat without throwing up? aaand how do you make it as pleasureable as possible?

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Anonymous

Welll just because you gag doesnt mean you will puke. But a good trick is too put your tounge at the roof of your mouth and then put his whole punis under the tounge. It will feel like your are going extremly deep to him, but it reality you only goin about 2 inches in hahah.

6 months ago / 1 note

So me and this guy have been having sex a lot and but it is sooo short. is there anything i can to to make him last longer or is it just gonna have to be that way?

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Anonymous

Honestly, just say you want it to be longer. he probably wants it to be longer too. Maybe do oral for a while before actual sex,

6 months ago

I have fairly large nipples and my boobs are 36 B, but my nipples are like fat and pretty big like maybe quarter size. Is that un-normal??

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Anonymous

perfectly normal!

6 months ago / 1 note

If I masterbate with a large vibrator, and it feels okay, will sex still hurt the first time? I am a virgin, but I'm not exactly tight, because I am very into self exploration and self pleasure. I think what I'm asking is if losing your virginity and the pain that comes with it, is that pain somewhat psychological (feeling relaxed, safe, secure etc) or is it purely physical (being extremely tight because you're a virgin)? And if I am not tight, will it still hurt?

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Anonymous

Well if you use tampons, your vagina will be little used to the feelings. and using a vibrater has nothin to do with if sex will hurt. its different forever. but its just a tiny stin. nothing to not have sex over though

6 months ago / 1 note